GG and I have both been swamped this week and didn't have opportunities to post new content, but we hope all of yours have been wonderfully productive {and that you perhaps enjoyed something from our archives ;-) }. Happy Weeke...
Friday, September 28, 2012
Friday, September 21, 2012
Love Note - Friday 9/21/12
Posted by Kim Jackson on 7:21 AM
This quote reminded me of the theme that GG referenced in yesterday's post. Just as we have to learn the difference between quitting something we love or are meant to do and moving on because we are supposed to; we have to also learn how to let go of things (and people) that no longer serve us. If something feels negative and not in alignment with your spirit or your purpose, don't be afraid to move on. Rest assured that what you need will come around again in a way that is more suited to your current needs.
Have a great weekend!...
Thursday, September 20, 2012
To Quit or Not to Quit
Posted by GG on 6:22 PM
Quitting is not always the enemy. If you're letting go of something that is hindering you, then go ahead and quit. Let it go. Dismiss it and don't look back. It's fine to change your mind.
But if you find yourself quitting at things that you really want, you've got to learn to trust the process and give yourself a chance. Understand that you very well might fail the first time, the second time and maybe even the third time. Get over that. Try to adjust your thinking in these ways:
*Remember that everything you set your intention to do is about your experiences along the way, not the...
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
What You’re Saying About Yourself: Does Your Story Empower You?
Posted by Kim Jackson on 12:57 PM
“Retelling a self-defeating story. – If we continue to repeat a story in our head, we eventually believe that story and embrace it – whether it empowers us or not. So the question is: Does your story empower you? Don’t place your mistakes on your mind, their weight may crush your current potential. Instead, place them under your feet and use them as a platform to view the horizon. Remember, all things are difficult before they are easy. What matters the most is what you start doing now.” (source)
I’ve realized that I don’t always tell the best stories about myself. In fact, I have a habit of retelling one self-defeating story in particular.
I’m...
Friday, September 14, 2012
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Pretty Things: Girlfriends
Posted by Kim Jackson on 5:39 PM
Sometimes all you need to feel like a "pretty thang" is to be surrounded by your good girlfriends. You know, the ones who will laugh with you, cry with you, cook for you, tell you when you're wrong--and just overall love you to pieces.
A good girlfriend of ours got married a couple of weekends ago and friends from all over came into town to celebrate her nuptials. It was so much fun and just the biggest love fest ever. We can't be together all the time like we did when we were younger, but when we do get together, it's like we never separated. So refreshing.
If you haven't had really good girl time lately, I encourage you to have...
Monday, September 10, 2012
Needs, Wants and Living Without Regret
Posted by GG on 10:16 PM
Good decisions come from experience, and experience comes from bad decisions. ~Author Unknown
What drives you more -- needs or wants? Are you more likely to make decisions based on what you think is best for you in the long run or what will satisfy you most in the moment? The uncertainty of life requires that we find some kind of balance between these two concepts. On the one hand, tomorrow is not promised and we don't want to constantly deny ourselves of things that bring us pleasure. On the other hand, living in a reality of complete indulgence and immediate gratification is chaotic at best, isn't it?
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I went through a period in...
Friday, September 7, 2012
Love Note - Friday 9/7/12
Posted by Kim Jackson on 8:00 AM
This weekend, we encourage you to take some time to think about what you're calling into your life; ponder what you are "seeking", whether consciously or unconsciously. It might be difficult, but it also might bring you one step closer to your breakthrough. Happy Friday....
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Why You Need to Cultivate Self-Loving Habits
Posted by GG on 6:00 PM
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When you don't make time for things that make you feel good, you're opening the door for needy, insecure behavior to become your method of operation. You can't wait for other people to make you feel good. I've learned this the hard way and I never want to go back to living in a world where everyone else's needs, wants and opinions matter more than my own. Praise and appreciation feel good, but they shouldn't be your motivation for what you do - especially not for things that you do for yourself.
Today, I'd like to share four habits that I've cultivated to stay grounded in my identity and show myself love. I encourage...
Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Dating and the Single Parent: When is it Time to Involve Your Child?
Posted by Kim Jackson on 10:04 PM
Dating and the single parent is always an interesting topic—what are the rules of engagement when children are involved? When is the right time to introduce your child into the situation?
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As if dating isn’t difficult enough on its own at times, there are additional elements at play for single parents. They often have budgets, priorities and schedules that differ widely from those of their childless single counterparts--which contribute an additional layer to the experience. When to introduce your child to someone you're dating is probably one of the most important questions that parents seek to tackle in regards to dating.It is...
